Everyone is unique and has a story to tell. Observing other people on the street, in the mall or on the beach, I often wonder what fascinating tale they carry, a story waiting to be written. Let’s look into writing memoir, a literary bloggers genre.
What is your story? Most of us have given thought to one day writing our memoirs or assisting a parent or grandparent to write their story. Therefore, I am excited to have a guest today who has just published her fifth book in the literary genre of Memoirs.
Note: This post has been updated with a short review below of the 2017 sixth book by Debby Gies
Writing Memoir with author Debby Gies
Debby Gies is an accomplished nonfiction memoir author, writing under the name of D.G. Kaye. She writes about life, matters of the heart and women’s issues. I have read her first book entitled Conflicted Hearts. Any good book will keep your interest; a great book feels like you are right there feeling what the characters are experiencing. Conflicted Hearts is such a book, and that is why I read it cover to cover in one day. The sequel to this book has just been published.

Debby lives in Toronto Canada with her husband.
She self-medicates with a daily dose of humor and is an optimist with a drive to succeed. She loves to cook, travel and play poker.
Her generous and warm personality is evident in her writing. She writes about lessons from her very colorful and eventful life to empower and inspire others.
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Debby we are so honored to have you here to talk and share your knowledge with us.
Thank you, Kathleen, for taking interest in my work and inviting me here to your blog to talk about my writing and for the opportunity to offer some pointers about memoir writing.
Breaking Free
Debby, you were born in Toronto Canada, and describe your childhood as being emotionally neglected, leaving you with a severely deflated self-esteem.
You could have remained a prisoner of your past influences. However, it is evident that you have overcome and broken free from these invisible shackles.
Was there a trigger where you realized that you could break the mold and effect positive changes in your life? Is this what set you on the pathway of writing your memoirs?
I was quite a precocious little girl, wise beyond my years. As a child, my curiosity had me needing to stay on top of the state of things in my home. My mother was a narcissist, but I wasn’t aware of that when I was young. When I was a child, I adored her, as did everyone else, but as I grew into my teens I realized how she manipulated people, including her children. I knew by my mid-teens I needed to break free from her clutches, but not realizing that her hold on me followed wherever I went.
I began writing thoughts and journaling about my dysfunctional life from my observations when I was 10 years old. When I moved away from home at 18, I began my own journey of learning to overcome my sorry state of self-esteem. I read many self-help and psychology books, and made some wonderful friendships which helped me grow and build self-confidence.
My writing became a great emotional release. I had always wanted to write books someday, wanting to share my stories in hopes that they may help others with encouragement and inspiration from what I endured.
Back in those earlier decades, self-publishing wasn’t an option and I had zero confidence to make me want to send anything to a publisher. Then life got busy, and through the years, my relationship with my mother grew more difficult. I began to re-evaluate our relationship and began writing Conflicted Hearts, even though I was afraid to publish it because she was still living. But I decided to publish it about 10 months before she died, albeit with much apprehension, but with lots of encouragement from my siblings.
Emotions of Writing Memoir
Reading old journals and delving into the past can be an emotional rollercoaster. Do you have advice on how to use these emotions positively and not be swamped by them?
It’s hard to escape the emotions arising when we re-visit painful past hurts. Writing memoir is different from writing fiction because it’s hard to separate our feelings from our words. I like to dissect my memories and look at the reasoning behind the emotion.
I’m a truth-teller, always looking to resolve conflict. The way I process my thoughts about hurts that I harbor within is to find a release for them, usually through my writing. For me, writing helps analyze things and put them in a perspective. My writing isn’t to convict anyone, rather to expose the problem and share how I dealt with my problems; solving my own anxieties from my situations and hopefully leaving a message for others.
This was why I wrote my newest book, the sequel to Conflicted Hearts, PS. I Forgive You, because I knew I had to find resolution and peace within myself for closure from the decision I made to finally abandon my narcissistic mother, and live with that decision after she died. I couldn’t write about it until I experienced the feelings I would go through.
Consulting Family Members
Do you consult with other family or friends to clarify your recollections of past events?
Yes I do. It’s funny though, writing in memoir is writing our truth, the truth as WE know it and remember it. I remember much more than my siblings do because I was the eldest and I took the brunt of my mother’s wraths for years.
I’m also an empath, very in-tune to other’s feelings. I was aware of the discord I grew up in while my siblings chose to tune out. I often spoke about incidents with my siblings and friends who were witness to situations I encountered in my younger life. In my newest book, I did many interviews with various family members.
Permissions and Disguising Identities
As a memoir writer do you need permission to name others mentioned in the story? Do you ever disguise people or place names to protect identities?
It’s advisable to get written permissions from the people we write about in our memoirs. If we’re writing about someone in particular, not shedding good light on them, we should have permissions to avoid repercussions. This can be uncomfortable, but necessary. I discuss my book’s material with my family. But in my mother’s case, I was in shaky waters by publishing Conflicted Hearts, although knowing she was incapacitated and financially incapable of taking me to court, I was still unnerved.
I also always change the names of people in my books, even with permissions. I feel it’s a courtesy to them. Changing names doesn’t take away from the truth of the story, merely protects identities. But don’t be fooled, if we’re writing about a person who has done wrong, sometimes changing their name and occupation, or even distinguishing characteristics may not be enough and can still lead to lawsuits.
I would highly recommend that anyone writing nonfiction, including real people in their stories, do their due diligence in learning the laws of slander, libel, defamation of character and invasion of privacy. It is for all these possible legal issues I chose to take out media insurance.
Fiction in Writing Memoir
Some authors including the popular Mitch Albom very effectively integrate fact and fiction. Is there a place for fiction in memoir writing?
Not really. Memoir writing is truth as we know and remember it with the exception of being able to change names and identities, but not altering the truth. By interjecting fiction, the stories become classed under creative nonfiction. I think everyone remembers the big ‘James Frey’ controversy when he was called out for his fictional stories in his huge bestseller, A Million Little Pieces.
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Overcoming Depressing Influences
The challenges inherent in writing books may engender some dark moments of self-doubt. What are some of the things that you tell yourself to break free and return to creative thinking?
Indeed memoir writing about painful events can bring on some dark and emotional

moments. I encountered this many times while writing my recent book. There were a few depressing moments while I was writing my story, but even more so while I was in revisions and edits as I had to read and re-read my story over many times. I found that I had to step away from the book several times, whether for a day or two to get me back into a positive mode.
Importance of Editors
Do you always use professional editors/proofreaders as a preparatory step for publishing?
Absolutely! I use author friends as beta readers for feedback when my books are in early drafts. Once my drafts are cleaned up, I send to the editor, then more rewrites before my books are ready for proofreading.
While I’m in the editing stage, I’m already working with a cover artist with a theme in mind from my story that I ask her to create a cover from. Then after proofing, I send my manuscript out to be formatted. Self-published authors have a host of duties to contend with that severely eats into writing time. Many authors format themselves these days, but I don’t have the inclination to learn how so I farm it out.
Finances
Have you found publishing your books to be financially profitable?
That’s a loaded question. Most Indie authors aren’t able to make a living off their books for quite some time. The reward is gaining readership for our books, and hopefully from there, word will spread to gain new readers and eventually build a stable royalty income. I would say that if you want to write books you should love the craft of writing and don’t think that it’s a method of getting rich, because most authors don’t.
That is wise advice for writers to have the right attitude and expectations. What is it that makes memoirs saleable? Is there a magic ingredient that makes a writer’s memoirs engage the general public?
I don’t think there’s a magic formula to writing a great memoir. Yes, there are guidelines to writing in memoir, but it’s the subject matter we choose to write about that will be the deciding factor if it interests a reader. No book is going to please every reader, but if we put out good books, eventually we will attract those types of readers who enjoy reading memoirs and biographies; those are the genres I enjoy reading, so naturally, I write in the same genre.
Portraying Unlovely Characters
Before we take a look at your new book; do you have any tips for readers who may be considering writing their memoirs?
My advice to those who wish to delve into the memoir-writing genre is to remember that writing about someone in their story who behaved badly isn’t about demeaning and bashing that person, or writing for revenge. It also isn’t about writing to acquire sympathy and seem like a victim.
Yes, a non-desirable character in a story should be portrayed as they were (or are), but without malice. In essence, the reason we describe these characters and their flaws in our stories is to portray their personalities to the reader so they can understand where the problems regarding them relate. We shouldn’t write to convince readers to ‘be on our side’ and ‘hate’ the antagonist, but rather let the readers decide their own emotions from the descript of the story itself.
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P.S I Forgive You
Could you tell us a little about this book?
P.S. I Forgive You is a sequel to Conflicted Hearts, a memoir about my narcissistic mother, and the psychological hold she had on me by instilling guilt and fear when her demands weren’t complied with, and the heartache she bestowed on her loved ones.
This sequel is a stand-alone in its own right. It’s a new journey about discovering and overcoming the narcissists inflictions, and ultimately, learning forgiveness, both for myself and my mother. The story is a completion of a life cycle, the cutting of the cord with all its frayed ends.
“I hurt for her. She wasn’t much of a mother, but she was still my mother.”
“Confronted with resurfacing feelings of guilt, D.G. Kaye is tormented by her decision to remain estranged from her dying emotionally abusive mother after resolving to banish her years ago, an event she has shared in her book Conflicted Hearts. In P.S. I Forgive You, Kaye takes us on a compelling heartfelt journey as she seeks to understand the roots of her mother’s narcissism, let go of past hurts, and find forgiveness for both her mother and herself.
After struggling for decades to break free, Kaye has severed the unhealthy ties that bound her to her dominating mother—but now Kaye battles new confliction, as the guilt she harbors over her decision only increases as the end of her mother’s life draws near. Kaye once again struggles with her conscience and her feelings of being obligated to return to a painful past she thought she left behind.”
Debby thank you so much for giving us a look into your newly published memoir writing. It appears to be a book with lessons that will relate to many readers.
We appreciate your generosity in sharing with our blog readers valuable tips for those wishing to embark into nonfiction writing memoir.
Update: Debby has now published another book in the genre of Memoir.
Twenty Years: After “I Do”: Reflections on Love and Changes Through Aging
“In this personal accounting, D.G. Kaye shares the insights and wisdom she has accrued through twenty years of keeping her marriage strong and thriving despite the everyday changes and challenges of aging. Kaye reveals how a little creative planning, acceptance, and unconditional love can create a bond no obstacle will break. Kaye’s stories are informative, inspiring, and a testament to love eclipsing all when two people understand, respect, and honor their vows. She adds that a daily sprinkling of laughter is a staple in nourishing a healthy marriage.
Twenty years began with a promise. As Kaye recounts what transpired within that time, she shows that true love has no limits, even when one spouse ages ahead of the other.”
For those who have enjoyed learning more about memoir writing and meeting Debby Gies in our interview, I will add a number of links to her and her books.
Use the comment section below if you would like to make comments or ask more questions.
Click on the images to buy or read reviews.
- Website: http://www.dgkayewriter.com
- Author Page: http://www.amazon.com/author/dgkaye7
- Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/dgkaye
- About me: http://www.wiseintro.co/dgkaye7
- Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/@pokercubster
- Linkedin: http://www.linkedin.com/in/dgkaye7
- Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/dgkaye
- Google: http://www.google.com/+DebbyDGKayeGies
- Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dgkaye
- Pinterest: http://www.pinterest.com/dgkaye7
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89 thoughts on “Writing Memoir [Expert Interview]”
Thank you so very much Kathleen for having me over to your blog. It was a thrill and an honor. I hope I have provided some useful information for readers and writers who are considering writing a memoir.
🙂 Debby
The pleasure is mine Debby, It has been wonderful getting to know you and having the privilege to learn from you.
Kathleen
Thank you again. I am humbled. 🙂
Hi Kathleen,
I am a huge fan of Debby’s. Although we’ve never met, I consider her a personal friend. She is a good friend as well as a talented author and a giving community member. The blogging community is lucky to have her.
I recently read Debby’s book MENO-WHAT. I found it such a valuable read, I favorably reviewed it on Amazon.
Thanks for letting everyone know about Debby.
Janice
Thanks for coming to comment Janice. Yes, our community is lucky to have bloggers like Debby who set such a high example in generosity and care for others. It is good to hear how much you enjoyed the book Meno-what? Your review will help others to choose which books to purchase and I hope that this interview will encourage others to write their story.
Kathleen
Hi Janice! Thanks so much for visiting and leaving me wonderful words of praise my friend. 🙂
An outstanding interview, Kathleen and Debby! Your questions were so poignant, Kathleen. You focused on Debby’s life experiences through her writing within her genre of choice, adding another dimension to the interview process. And Debby, your answers were discerning and insightful, two elements that I as a reader find immensely thought-provoking and prompt me to buy a book. I’ve shared this across my pages and hope that it inspires others as much as it did me ❤
Tina thank you so much, I am tremendously encouraged by your kind words. We enjoyed doing the interview and Debby was so generous with her answers. I hope that others will feel more confident to write their stories too. Thanks also for sharing the interview with your readers. All the best and enjoy your book.
Kathleen
Thank you so much Tina for finding your way here and leaving such wonderful praise. You are also such a wonderful sharer to our community. I am ever grateful for how much you share of my work. <3
Hello Kathleen, lovely to meet you thanks to our dear mutual friend Debby. I enjoyed your interview greatly. You ask great questions – and of course Deb gives great answers – which, as a fellow memoir writer, I find so helpful and interesting. I’m particularly glad you brought up the question about portraying unloveable characters. As we know, this is a tricky area in memoir, and Deb, your answer confirms my own thoughts about it. As I work on my revisions, I’m using all real names but will change after. I tried writing with made up names but I found it stifled my writing and descriptions. Not sure I would make a very good fiction writer! Have shared this excellent post, thank you ladies!
Hi Sherri, so nice to meet you too. Thank you so much for your kind and helpful words. I am glad that you found some help and support from Debby’s answers. All the very best with writing your memoirs and thanks for visiting.
Kathleen
Thank you so much Kathleen. I’ve subscribed to your newsletter thanks to Debby, so glad to connect here!
Thanks so much Sher for dropping by here to read. Glad you found it helpful. I too couldn’t write fiction, as you know, I’m a ‘tell it like it is’ kind of girl. Be careful when going through your manuscript and changing names. Make sure you’ve changed them all. Use the ‘find and replace’ feature in Word to do that. 🙂 xo
Thanks so much Deb, as always, for your great advice. Duly noted, and will most certainly do so! BTW, I meant to say, I LOVE the photo of you…you look fantastic! 🙂 xoxo
Thank you Sher for making it over here too. So glad if I’ve helped out. And thanks for the lovely compliment. xo <3
What a great interview! She is a fascinating lady and you asked many of the questions I have always wondered about, like permissions and protecting identities. I really appreciate you posting this it is very information.
Thanks so much Melissa. I am so pleased that the memoir interview with D,G,Kaye was helpful and answered some of your questions.
Kathleen
Thank you for reading Melissa. I’m glad you enjoyed it. 🙂
Very interesting interview. Well written and full off informations. The author looks like a gorgeous woman.
Thanks Sinziana, Debby is just a lovely generous author and person.
Kathleen
Thanks so much for reading Sinziana. I’m *blushing* 🙂
I enjoyed this peek into the memoir writer’s process. Writing your truth is not easy, but we all benefit when truth tellers tell their story!
Thanks for your helpful comments Michele.Your right it is not easy to write some things, but the truth and the way it is written matters.
Kathleen
Thank you Michele. If we don’t speak the truth in a memoir, we may as well write fiction. 🙂
This is such a fantastic interview! I would love to write my memoir one day – might have to do something worthwhile first! :p I love the way Debby explains that it is our own truth!
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Great comments Charlotte, and thanks for the kind words, Debby was so generous in the interview. You have a story to tell already, start making notes 🙂
Kathleen
Thank you Charlotte. You don’t have to do something worthwhile to write your story. Everybody has a story from their life. You just have to make sure it’s poignant, has a meaning, lessons, and something in it for someone to take something from it while engaging the reader with a story that captivates their interest and allows them to develop an emotion from it. 🙂
I really enjoyed this post. Kathleen, you had some great questions, and Debby provided very insightful answers. So often our biggest personal growth comes as a result of negative events or relationships, but that can be very difficult to share publicly. I appreciate Debby’s honest advice.
Thank you so much Wendy. 🙂
Kathleen this was a very interesting read. I’m sure many of us go through difficult times with family members throughout our lives. To be able to write it all down must have a cathartic effect on us as I’m sure D.G. must have felt. Writing a memoir surely benefits not only the writer but also many readers who cannot write and thus are able to see their situation thru the book. It sounds like a remarkable set of books, and books we can learn much from.
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Thank you Mary. 🙂
I love what she said about writing negative characters – and that it’s not about attacking the person, but more shining a light on their actions. I think readers are prone enough to drawing their own conclusions. We don’t have to do it for them. I’m going to keep that at the back of my mind for all of my writing from here on. Thank you for the excellent interview!
I’m glad you gleaned something from the interview Michael. 🙂
Thank you so much Debby and Kathleen for sharing this! Writing a memoir is something I’ve thought about, but I haven’t been sure how to go about it (or if my life was interesting enough!). This is so helpful.
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Thanks Debbie. Just remember, many of us don’t have the most exciting lives, but many of us have memorable situations in our lives to consider writing about. A memoir isn’t a life story. merely a snippet of life. 🙂
“She wasn’t much of a mother, but she was still my mother.”
I can totally relate to that I wasn’t able to forgive her until long after she died and then it was such a relief.
Thanks for sharing that Bonnie. 🙂
It is so awesome reading about the journey an author takes to get to the finished product. As an Indie Author myself, I find this “Writing memoir” super interesting.
I did learn the hard way that proof reading and editing are things one should outsource when writing your book. It took me an extra week doing that for The Art of Pinterest Profits! So I completely agree, they are best “farmed out” as Kaye says!
Thanks for sharing this expert interview Kathleen!
Thanks for reading Syl. And the main thing is, you learned. Remember, even editors need editors. 🙂
Kathleen and Debbie, thank you. What an interesting topic. My thoughts about memoirs were that they were like diaries, usually a telling of events, positive, for the purpose of handing down to loved ones and friends. I never thought of them as a way to work through past pains and dysfunctional relationships.
For a memoir such as this, it takes bravery which you definitely have, Debbie. I really like the idea of your P.S. I forgive you the sequel. It makes my heart sigh in relief that your story doesn’t end with conflict but with release.
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Thank you so much Sara for your lovely comment. A memoir isn’t always about a happy ending, because it’s truth. When I wrote the first book, Conflicted Hearts, I knew in my heart the story didn’t end there, but I had created a resolution for what I was left with. It’s also difficult to write about someone who was still alive at the time of that writing. Writing memoir can be difficult, but also rewarding. 🙂
I have kept several journals over the years. So reading this was very informative and inspirational. I have never read my old journals. Just might start now. Found you on Blogger’s Pit Stop Link Party.
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Hi Candy. Thanks so much for popping over and sharing. You should go through those journals. You’ll be surprised at the nuggets you’ll find. 🙂
Everyone certainly does have a story to tell. I love hearing them all.
Thanks Elise. Me too, I love stories. 🙂
Really great insights. I am saving this for rereading later as I have been wanting to know more about memoir writing. Thanks for sharing this at #WoW Words on Wednesday.
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My pleasure Evelyn. 😉
Oh, wow! What a fascinating post! This sentence touches my heart. “She wasn’t much of a mother, but she was still my mother.” I think all parents make mistakes, failing their children, and there are moments for which we all need to be forgiven. ‘Definitely adding this author, Debbie Gies, to my reading list. -Marci @ Stone Cottage Adventures
Thank you Marci. I’m humbled. 🙂
Thank you for the lovely gesture of adding my latest book to this post Kathleen. Oh my, I can’t believe it’s been almost 2 years! Much appreciated and sharing. 🙂
Lovely to see Debby here and love her books and her blog. thanks for sharing.
Thanks so much for dropping by Sal! xoxo
This was a wonderful and insightful post/interview with Debby. She is a lovely and talented lady. Her books touch the heart of anyone who reads them. I look forward to reading her latest one. Thank you, Kathleen, for sharing Debby and her books. Hugs to you both. Xx
Thanks so much Janice for visiting here and leaving your heartwarming words. <3 xx
I really enjoyed this interview Kathleen so thank you for introducing me to Debbie. I love seeing people overcome adversity in childhood and not make excuses but just get out there and do something with their life. I’ve never actually thought of Writing Memoir as a genre but it is isn’t it? You would have to be careful not to upset family members wouldn’t you?
Thanks Sue. And yes, you do have to be careful not just about upsetting family members, but not getting sued!
I really enjoyed this post Kathleen. Debby is someone I’ve followed for a while and I enjoy her writing. I’ll keep an eye out for these books.
Hi Debbie, thanks so much for your lovely words. 🙂
Wow, so much to think about with this particular genre! Thanks for sharing the insights you gained.
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You are most welcome Michele. 🙂
Hi Kathleen. I just wanted to thank you again for giving this post a new boost. I am also reblogging it this Friday, so you can expect more visitors here. 🙂
What a great post Kathleen and Debby. So good to see our lovely blogging community taking the time to listen and share their words of wisdom. I’m stopping by today from the bloggerspitstop which is again a great place to share and learn. Lovely to hear from you both.
Mainy
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Thanks for reading and commenting. We are so glad that you enjoyed it we can all learn from each other.
Kathleen
Thank you so much Mainy, I’m so glad you enjoyed. 🙂
As usual, Deb, you held nothing back. I think being an em-path probably helps with this genre. I can’t tell you how much I appreciated your honest in “I Forgive You.”
Great interview Kathleen and Debby. So much information and a great look into Debby’s approach and commitment to her writing. I think its so interesting how family members will have different memories/experiences of the same person or event. I find that fascinating and have experienced it in my own life. I can imagine that it can create friction in truth-telling when everyone’s truth is different. Thanks, Debby, for sharing your truth and having such an impact with your memoirs. Thanks to Kathleen for some great questions. 😀
Thank you for your kind words, Debby does have a lot of experience and wisdom to share.
Kathleen
Thanks so much Diana for popping over here at Kathleen’s blog to read. 🙂 xx
Hi Kathleen and Debby – really interesting to read about how you coped, and how you adapted your Memoir to fit you, as well as anyone mentioned – it all makes sense. I’m sure your other books have reached readers, who need to get to grips with a few of their own challenges and this adds another layer for your community of bloggers and readers to see and gain some insight. I’m just glad you found your way to writing and blogging and being part of this wonderful community – of helpful, cheering people – all of great assistance to one and all – setting us examples of progressing forward in our various lives. Cheers and happy weekends to you both – Hilary
Thank you Hilary, I love the way we can all learn from each other. Debby has been so generous and honest in her sharing.
Kathleen
Hi Hilary. Thank you so much for your kind words. This is truly a wonderful community we have. We all have much to learn from one another. Happy weekend to you my friend. 🙂 x
I always enjoy reading Debby’s books – she and I have a lot in common!
Thanks for popping over Stevie. Yes, we certainly do have lots in common. And I especially enjoy your books too. 🙂 x
Kathleen, it’s lovely to come across your blog via Debby’s! This is a terrific in-depth interview with searching questions that allow Debby to open up on many topics.
Debby, I’ve learnt so much more about memoir writing through your answers, not only your touching and heartfelt personal story, but the act of writing a nonfiction book and the practical process and considerations -I’m in awe more than ever of anyone tackling this genre. I thought the biggest hurdle would be reliving the pain, trying to find balance in the book, writing without malice, but no reasons there is so much more. Thank you for sharing your hard-earned wisdom from your experiences! Wam hugs, Annika xx
Hi Annika. Thank you for taking the time to hop over to Kathleen’s blog and read and leave your lovely comments. I am happy to hear you took so much from this post. You know me by now, I tell it like it is and wear my heart on my sleeve 🙂 xx
This is very interesting. Good to know about the legal aspects of writing memoir as well as the writing process.
Thanks Robbie. I’m so happy to know you found the information useful. Thanks for visiting here too. 🙂 x
Hello Kathleen! This is an amazing interview! I’ve enjoyed it very much. It’s always wonderful to learn more about Debby. She’s a very talented and wonderful human being. I’ve also been thinking for a while now about writing a memoir, so this post has also been informative and helpful. Thanks to you both! 😀 xx
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Thank you so much for your visit and kind words Vashti. I’m so glad my post has been helpful to you for memoir writing. I would love to read your memoir when you get there. <3 xx
Oh, it will be a while, but I’m determined to do it and you’ve been a great inspiration. Thank you, you’re so sweet. <3 xx
As are you. <3 I can wait. 🙂 xx
I enjoyed reading about Debby and her books. I have read a couple of them and have the newest book on my TBR list. Debby is a special person who writes from her heart making the reader feel as if she is a good friend. I consider Debby a warm, caring and supportive friend. Lovely interview, Kathleen. Hugs xx
Thanks for your kind comments, Janice. Debby is a very special person writing that honestly says things that we are wondering about.
Fantastic interview, Kathleen. I’ve been following Debby’s blog for a while, and am pleased to learn more about her through interviews and guest posts. She’s an accomplished, genuine and generous writer and blogger. Your questions are spot-on. As a new memoir writer, I’ve been wondering about many of these topics, and Debby’s answers delivered! Honesty and straightforwardness shine through in the questions and the answers. I love it!
Thanks so much Liesbet. I am glad that you enjoyed the interview. It is so helpful to hear honest answers from someone with the experience that Debby has.
Kathleen
What an interesting interview with insightful questions and thought-provoking answers. I have read some of Debby’s books and thoroughly enjoyed them. She writes with clarity and straight from the heart. Her writing is sincere, open and honest. It’s a pleasure to pop over here from her post and read the interview in full. Thank you, both.
Thanks for sharing this…how great bless for me to read about Debby. This interview encourage me to write my story about thirty years of my marriage (February, 3 rd, 2021 is my anniversary wedding). I’have start write my memoir from copas my Dear Diary and letters, that I send to my husband when I can’t tell about my pain because of him or mother in-laws, sister-in-law, and the others woman. Fyi I’m from Indonesia and I still learn english…lol…hope you understand what I mean with this comment, cos my poor in English…😁😁🙏